Action The Commission of any themed action. For example, binding and spanking.
Age Play It is a woman who is more or less than his real age.
Coprophilia This is a form of sexual intercourse. Coprophilia is often a combination of fetishism and masochism, often combining it. This is a form of masculinity that has been taken. Sometimes this sexual addiction can develop into coprophagia , eating excrement. It has been shown that it has a very strong immune system.
Subdrop It may be possible to occur. It can often be a problem .
Altocalciphilia It is a fetish of heels. See also Trampling .
Trampling Trampling on heels.
Ankle cuffs Ankle cuffs. Device for fixing the legs, made of leather, metal, etc.
Belting Belt whipping .
Birch,Birching Bunch of birch twigs, birch twigging.
Breath control Breath play, avtomaticheskoe suffocation, asphyxia. Very dangerous! It is a temporary strangulation of the carotid artery that hangs up.
Coprophilia Receive erotic pleasure from the submissive partner games with their excrement.
Dress code Special requirements for clothing, symbolizing the BDSM community, denoting human preferences in the context of BDSM. BDSM clubs.
GoldenShower Golden shower, Golden shower. Bowel movement the urine on a submissive partner.
Handcuffs Handcuff. Of the role-playing games. There are not only models for dressing on the wrist, but also for dressing on the thumbs.
Horse Horse. The design of the sports horse «horse». It is used as a rule for fixation during flagellation.
Queening Kind of forced oral sex
Retifism Shoe fetish .
Urolagnia Sexual games with urine. Often used in the context of BDSM as a way to humiliate the submissive partner. See . also Golden rain .
Algolagnia Algolagnia . Partner (passive form). There is an active — the same as sadism .
Animal Play Game in image animals. Partners or domestic animals wild animals. Not to be confused with zoophilia — real copulation with animals.
Asphyxia Asphyxia. Extreme BDSM practice characterized by strangulation. Very dangerous! Can be performed only with the top medical knowledge.
B & D Role-playing games with his prior consent. Most often used binding parts, limbs and «education». ( Bondage in translation » binding «, » bondage «).
Baby Play Infantilism — that is, the game of the child. A separate direction of age games. In this case, one of the small children takes the picture of a small child.
Bastinado Bastinado. Strikes on the feet. For example, a stack, a cane, a whip.
Bdsm BDSM abbreviation translates as:
Bondage and Discipline (BD) — binding, restriction of mobility and education.
Domination and Submission (DS) — domination and submission.
Sadism and Masochism (SM) — sadism and masochism.
Combine all of the above. The term is more commonly used in North America. The world of Erotic Power Exchange is the exchange of erotic power. The term BDSM originates in the Usenet newsgroup alt.sex.bondage . In terms of words and masochism, as in official terms.There are still some stereotypes based on anatomy. There is a real interpretation of the game.
A prerequisite is safety , voluntary consent and reasonableness .
Branding Branding   The image on the body of the sign of belonging to the top by tattoo, scarification or cauterization.
BodyModification Special body modification with wearing a corset, tattooing, piercing for new sensations, decorative or other purposes.
Bondage Bondage .   Voluntary submission to BDSM relationships. Binding partner for mutual pleasure.
Rope bondage Rope bondage .   As a rule, synthetic or natural ropes with a diameter of 6-8 mm are used.
Steel bondage Steel bondage .   Militia handcuffs, chains, shackles are used.
Bottomom Translated as   the lower one , that is, the subordinate partner. » Submissive » — submitting, » masochist » — masochist, » slave » — slave.
Boy The obedient boy in BDSM games. As a rule with homosexual relationships.
Bullwhip Translates as «Bullish whip» (the name «Arab lash» is also used). It is a long (from 1.8 to 9.1 meters or from 2 to 10 yards) whip made from calf or cow skin. Much like Indiana Jones.
Ballbusting Bollbasting.   A blow to the male genitalia (eggs). The blow can be applied with different strength — leg, knee.   Very dangerous!   Can only be performed by the dominant partner.
Caning Beats or accepts beats with a stick or cane.
Canane Cane.   Device for whipping, made of rattan.
Carabiner Carbine   Analogue carbine, which is used by climbers. Used in BDSM because of its simplicity and reliability in use, for example, when linking with a hang. Often, the carbine is worn on the belt as a call signal for a potential partner.
CBT Cock and Ball Torture .   It means the torture of the male genitalia with rings or piercings.
Chastity belt Belt of fidelity — in the wearing state does not allow the possibility of sexual intercourse because of its special design. Naturally, the design of belts for men and women is different. As a rule, such belts can be locked to a lock so that a person cannot take it off on his own. Metal and / or leather is used for its manufacture.
Collar Collar.   It is a symbol of belonging to the master or simply submission.
Consensual Voluntary.   The transfer of power over a partner. In this case, the framework of behavior is specified in advance, but in some cases they do without it. The principle of mutual consent to certain actions of partners. It is considered in conjunction with the principles of sane — rationality and safe — security.
Corsetry «Wearing a corset». One of the forms of body modification is putting on a torso corset. Purpose of punishment or binding. Or in games with the substitution of sexes — a man into a woman for a greater similarity of the figure with a woman.
Crop Riding Crop — stack. Elastic, thin, short cane for riding. At the end there is usually a piece of leather for ripping . It is used in the process of punishment.
D & S Dominance and Submission (Dominance and Submission ). Part of the basic concepts in BDSM. It is applied, as a rule, to designate a philosophical and psychological aspect. Usually indicates the dominant — obeying lifestyle as opposed to «games.» Also used to describe the scene of submission / dominance.
Daddy A partner that plays a dominant role in homosexuals in BDSM.
Device Device   Special subject used for thematic actions. For example, flogger , lash, stack.
Deviation Deviation.   Deviation from the daily norms of human behavior. Not a pathology . With absolute observance in BDSM games of 3 main principles — voluntariness, rationality, safety — is not regarded as a pathological deviation.
Discipline Discipline.   A term that unites a set of disciplinary rules in DS relationships or game scenarios for a subordinate partner. It can be a real (physical) or imaginary (emotional) punishment for offenses against a dominant partner. It is carried out only by prior consent.
Dominance Dominance   — obtaining power over a partner, managing it.
Dominant Dominant (the term applies to men). Indicates a strong-willed, strong character of a person inclined to the subordination of other people, leadership. Used in BDSM games.
Short term —   Dom .
Dominatrix The term denoting the dominant woman. Other names —   Domina , Domme .
Domspace A unique, transcendental state that occurs in the BDSM games of the dominant partner.
Dungeon Dungeon   Used as a place for BDSM games. It can be either a properly equipped room in an apartment, or a fully equipped room in a quiet place. It is equipped with various items for games — X-shaped crucifix crosses, hooks for hanging on the ceiling, rings, tying ropes, whips and many other accessories. The same term refers to some commercial specialized firms in the West.
DungeonMaster Dungeon Overseer (DM). A person whose duties include supervising a dungeon for BDSM games, ensuring the safety of participants or actors in the event of a SM show. The framework for action and the consent of the victim-party is agreed upon before the scene begins. In any case, he has the right to interrupt the action at any time by saying the agreed stop word. For example, leaving a person alone is not allowed for security reasons. You must have at least one other partner who is monitoring the state of the associated one.
Edgeplay 1. BDSM games using sharp objects (knives, needles).
2. Games on the edge are an insecure part of BDSM games.
In this case, the person submitting has no right to stop the physical / emotional impact on himself. The host of the player has unlimited physical power over the subordinate, which can provoke extreme actions.
Electric Play Electric games.   Games where electric current, which is not dangerous for the organism, is applied, which usually affects the partner’s excitement and pleasure in a positive way. In Russia, this kind of games is not recommended to be engaged in, since this requires specially designed devices that are made only abroad.
Endorphins Endorphins   — type of opioid proteins. They are distinguished by the irritation of a part of the brain responsible for sensations of pleasure or pain. When they affect the body comes euphoric, calm state with the blunting of pain.
Femdom The term denoting a woman with the role of domination, not only in lesbian games, but also in heterosexual relationships. In this case, the role of submission goes to the man.
Fisting Fisting.   Inserting a fist or hand into the anus or vagina of a partner.
Fetish Fetish   — strong attraction to various fantasies, garments, materials (latex, leather). Strengthens sensuality, sexual pleasure, experiences. There is a perception that only men are committed to fetishes, but many women disagree.
Foot fetish Footfetish .   Foot fetish. A very common fetish characterized by the desire to examine, kiss and / or smell the feet.
Fetishist Fetishist   — A person who fully applies his inclinations to the fetish for maximum enjoyment. Does not consider fetishism a harmful phenomenon.
Flagellation Flagellation   — divided into active and passive. It is a whipping partner partner, cane, etc. Partner prior consent is required. Can be seen in DS and erotic acts.
Flogger Whip with a few «tails» of leather.
Flogging Action with the use of a whip, the act of flogging, punishment.
Gender Play There is also a definition of Gender. Bending — substitution of sexes. A game where a partner or both partners “change” the gender and behave accordingly. It does not mean transvestism or dressing up games.
Gorean The term is taken from the works of John Norman, meaning games in the » Gorean » style. Assume a special language of partners, plasticity and behavior in general. As a rule, the man gets the role of domination, the woman — the subordination.
Green Green. The code word in BDSM games, meaning complete agreement with the dominant actions, the continuation of the game.
Hanky Code Special items of clothing that allow people to understand the preferences of people in games. First used by gays .
Harness Erotic costume, consisting of a combination of belts, chains or ropes, encircling the whole body or just a torso. It can also be used as an element of the scene.
Knife play Games with a knife. Games with the use of sharp objects (knife blades).
JapaneseBondage Japanese binding.   Difficult art of tying, as a rule — with ropes.
Kink Slang word indicating non-standard preferences in sex or feelings that are unacceptable by most people. For example, this term can be called people used in their relationship with a partner BDSM.
LeatherCommunity The phrase refers to the total BDSM community abroad, regardless of the type of practice and preferences in BDSM.
Leatherman As a rule, homosexual with S & M preferences.
Limits Restrictions of partners in BDSM games. Installed for Top — restrictions on power and various influences in relation to the subordinate partner. In accordance with the principle of consent, the Master must comply with these restrictions. But it often happens that a subordinate wants to move beyond the agreed framework and can ask the master about these actions. This is called “breaking walls” and leads to increased confidence.
Lifestyle (LS-D / s) Lifestyle   — lifestyle, which implies a complete transfer of rights over a dominant not only during games, but also in everyday life, all 7 days a week, 24 hours a day. The term 24/7 also applies here.
OTK Over theKnes Warming up Light impact with palm or flogger to warm up the skin before further stronger impact with serious devices. Helps to avoid serious traces after whipping.
Master Master
1. Respectful treatment to the dominant partner.
2. Synonym for Russian words Master, Master, transliteration from Master ( eng ). Implies slave status of a subordinate partner.
3. Opinion of a group of people or a certain community about a person worthy of respect in the BDSM community. Opinions of different groups may not coincide.
Masochism Masochism   — getting pleasure from intense physical or moral impact or pain. The term is derived from the name of Leopold von Zaher-Masoch (1836–1895), an Austrian prose writer, author of love-psychological novels and short stories (“Venus in Furs”, 1869, and others), whose characters have a painful passion for self-destruction in love, especially in men.
Masochist Masochist   — Personality, to masochism.
Mistress Dominant woman, mistress.   The term is usually used when a woman has a real slave in everyday life. There may be cases and on a contract basis.
Mummification Mummification   — The process of complete human filling with any material, like a mummy. The goal of absolute immobilization is pursued, leather masks that dull the organs of hearing and cover the eyes are also used. Rope, scotch, food wrap or specially made cotton or leather bags with inner sleeves along the body can be used as material. A mummified person completely relaxes and enjoys unusual conditions. This practice requires careful supervision by Topa.
Munch Munch (also » Burgermunch «). A party of active BDSM admirers is usually with the appropriate attributes on the body — collars, handcuffs, leather crucifix cuffs, etc. Such meetings are usually held in public places — cafes, restaurants, bars or even on the street, without erotic games — and with the aim of socialization and communication.
Negotiation Negotiations — a discussion of the limitations of various parties to BDSM games or an agreement on long-term relationships. Conducted to eliminate misunderstandings and safety of participants. The principle of «consent» is implied.
Panic Snap Uncoupling is a small-sized device for belts, chains or ropes for the immediate release of a person in the event of a health hazard, for example, when the victim cannot move and this can be dangerous. Used when hanging or in other cases.
Pansexual The general acceptance of all types of orientations and preferences in sex — transvestism , homosexuality, bisexuality, etc.
Paddle Paddle. Paddle, paddle — a device for spanking .
Pony Training Role-playing game, where one of the partners assumes the role of a horse. Not related to bestiality .
Posture Collar Specially designed collar — tough and tall. When worn, it fixes the head in a slightly upturned state. It is used to prevent a person from turning his head to the side. It can only be used for a short time, as it is very inconvenient.
PowerExchange Power Exchange   — An additional term meaning the transfer of power over a partner who does not mind taking control. The expression » erotic » is also used. power exchange ”- focusing on the erotic relationship.
Pet Play The game of pets.   Role-playing game in which at least one of the partners plays the role of a pet. For example, cats or dogs.
Play Piercing Games with skin piercing. Not related to piercing — permanent pierced holes with ornaments or rings.
Quirt Arapnik Belt whip, arapnik.
Red Red is a code word in BDSM games. Pronounced by a subordinate and means the stop sign of the action, the Top must stop.
Restraints Fixation device — can be ropes, leather cuffs or any items suitable for immobilizing limbs.
Subject Theme.   In the BDSM community, a synonym for BDSM.
Theme A person practicing BDSM.
S & M SM Sadism and masochism.   Games with enhanced moral, physical or erotic painful impact on a subordinate partner with his full consent for mutual enjoyment. Has nothing to do with cruelty.
Sadism Sadism   — satisfaction with the help of moral, physical or erotic painful impact on the partner. Applies only with his prior consent — not to be confused with cruelty! The term is derived from the name of Marquis Donatien Alphonse Francois de Sade (1740-1814) of the French writer.
Sadist Sadist. The person inclined to sadism.
Sadomasochism Sadomasochism.   Sex games in BDSM using a strong moral, physical impact on a partner. See sadism and masochism.
Sadomasochist Flagellant   — a person who enjoys playing with moral or physical painful effects on himself or his partner.
Safe , Sane ,and Consensual Safety, Intelligence and Volunteering   — The fundamental concepts of BDSM. Departure from them is regarded as pathology or cruelty and is not permissible in BDSM games. Usually abbreviated to «SSC».
Safeword Word of salvation   — a system of code words, by means of which the subordinate partner can warn the «Host» about the possible danger to his health. The bottom line is that ordinary words such as «Do not, please,» can enter into the role and actions to be properlyvosprinyaty.Upotreblenie words of salvation helps completely give the game.
Scene Session.   A separate episode of BDSM relations, a meeting to perform any thematic action.
SensoryDeprivation Deprivation of feelings — depriving a partner of the ability to use his senses — to see, speak, hear with the help of gags, masks, etc.
Single-tail Whip with one «tail»
Shibary Shibari.   Japanese rope tying technique.
Spanking Spunking .   Splitting on the buttocks, palm, brush, spatula, etc.
Slave Slave
1. A partner who has transferred physical power over himself to Topu. Used to derive pleasure from the desire to fully surrender to the hands of another person. The term is used only in lifestyle style relationships.
2. Incorrectly used word in relation to each bottome , which want session or drug forms of DS.
Slave Contract A written document specifying possible actions or actions in relations between the Master and the Slave. This document is not legally binding and is created with the aim of securing the results of the negotiations of the parties. There may be such contracts in which the slave may not be completely subordinate to his Master.
Slave Frame The machine, which is a cross for a crucifix. A specially made construction that helps to fix the limbs of a subordinate partner. It has the shape of the letter X and is usually made of wood. It has a lot of auxiliary items — belts, rings, ropes and even iron brackets.
Submission Subordination   — transfer of power to the owner, obedience in the DS relationship.
Submissive The obedient partner in the DS relationship.   Preference for the role of a slave. Commonly shortened to «sub» (sub).
Subspace Subspace .   Euphoric trance state that occurs at the bottom as a result of any thematic action.
Suspension Hanging a person in a bound state. It requires a great skill to bind, since it is necessary to avoid injury to health through impaired breathing or circulation. It is safer to use leather cuffs (hanging by the arms) or more complex special bags — harness .
Switch Switch   — a person who is able, depending on his mood, to change roles from a subordinate to a dominant and vice versa. Receives the same satisfaction from both roles.
Top Upper.   A person is a dominant, master, » dominant «, » sadist «, who has gained power over a partner with his consent.
Topping fromthe Bottomom Bottom control   (also » topping from Below «). Top management. Actions by a subordinate partner, abusing Top’s position, manipulating them. They are done with the goal of maximum enjoyment for the subordinate — in this case, the Top can simply become a“ trickster ”for the subordinate.
Triskel Triskel .   The BDSM symbol is a circle divided into three parts in the power of yin-yang . It symbolizes: three directions — DB, DC and CM, three principles — MDD, three positioning — upper, lower, switch.
Ugol’s Law The Law of Angle , looking that whatever your secret attachments or thoughts might be, there will definitely be a person who has the same attachments.
Vanilla Vanilla   — A term in BDSM society, meaning ordinary human relationships (as opposed to BDSM).
Violet Wand Electroshock   — a device that generates a high voltage, but a very small current, with the result that its action is similar to the discharge of static electricity. Specially made for this device do not cause harm to health.
Virtual Virtual.   A person talking on the topic of BDSM on the Internet. Not wanting to meet in real life.
Wrapping A special kind of lash when her «tail» wraps around the body. Quite painful.
Whipping Whipping with a whip, whip, walking stick or other suitable object.
X- frame X-cross   — a special design to hold the limbs of the partner in the form of the letter X. It has on itself a variety of different ropes, belts, rings or iron brackets.
Yellow Yellow — slow code word. It is used by a subordinate in the case when his strength is at the end or the degree of influence approaches the maximum. The top thus usually changes its behavior and draws attention to other aspects of the impact, so as not to stop the game by the stop word.